Question by Derek S: How do I, as a guy, close the “deal”?
I’m 24 years old, single, charming, nice, good-looking, very sexuaI, intelligent, I go to singles’ gatherings, but yet, I have a real struggle dating. I need some good advice here…whether it’s from an experienced guy or a woman who understands men. When I talk to girl and we have a good chemistry, how do I close the deal…meaning, things like…going on a date with her or going back to her place with her? I can approach, talk to, make women laugh…but that’s always how far it goes and I’m tired of this sweet-guy stuff because I think it gets me nowhere. Not to change my personality, but I just need to learn a few more things on dating, like the right things to do or say. I broke up with my ex last August, so I don’t want some big relationship right now…just date and I know that lots of people do it, including my ex. Any good advice out there?
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Answer by p r i n c e s s – k r i s s y
well maybe you cant get girlfriends because you arent actually all that good looking 
and when their laughing at you it isnt about what your saying, its actually at you! byeee xxx
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Of course it gets you nowhere! Quit being so nice to the chicks! Girls don’t like NICE guys! Take charge of the situation. Don’t ask if you can go back to her place!!! BIG mistake! But if you insist on being nice, Ok, you can approach the gril-talk to her….So go from there! Just simply smile and mention a movie that you would like to see….if she seems interested in you then close the deal by saying would you like to go see this movie with me. But maybe the fact that you don’t want a relationship right now might be showing somehow! When talking with the girls….mention something you would like to do that takes 2 people! If she changes the subject or seems disinterested then she doesn’t like you but if she seems interested then simply ask if she would like to join you. Good luck!!!!