Question by WISE☼RAD: Problems with friends!LONG!DRAMA?
hi i’m yarvoh,14,F,freshman in highschool.i’m kind of shy and not usually mean to people and don’t cause that much trouble but this time i lost it..i am not a lesbian but this section is cooler then the others.lol
Okay,i’m not sure what i should do.here’s the story:
i already rocky start today because my mom was mad at me because i went to school late and we argued in the morning.but i got over it.
Today at school,i was waiting in the lunch line with my friends X and T.they were messing around and i was just standing there.i was all like to X,”hey let’s go to further ahead in the line” and she was all like in a rude way and almost yelling “if you want to go,then go there by yourself!”.i was just like what the heck in my head and i went further and got my lunch.she tried offering me a piece of apple but i said no.
then when we were walking in the quad outside,this one girl bumped into X hecka hard on purpose and X’s twin sister Y wanted to confront her.so we decided to walk all the way around and tell the girl off.SO halfway there X walked off like usual to go and hug and talk to this one guy.it takes her usually like hecka long and we don’t even have that much time to spare for walking around.so me and Y went to go and like bump into the girl but we backed out because we didn’t have back up because of X and my other friend Z not being there.
next,i forgot what X did and it kind of got me mad.i told her twin sister,Y,to tell her sister to stop being a jerk and Y said no.so i told X straight up in her face,”stop being a f–ing jerk!”ppl had like shocked looks on their faces.i could really feel the anger come out and i told her how she was acting hecka rude and junk and how it’s annoying that she takes so long to stop by those ppl at our expense.then Y was trying to talk but i guess i kept interrupting her and i finally stopped and said “go ahead and say what you want but i still won’t care” and she said that she wasn’t trying to be offensive and asking what was so bad stopping in that area.and her sister was trying to argue with me and the bell rang then i was like whatever i still don’t care.one of our other friends was trying to say hi to me while i was going to pick up my bag and i ignored her which i thought was a bad thing to do.
i actually felt better though after all that but now my friends aren’t really talking to me anymore and i’m not sure what i should do.
SO after all that my questions are:
what should i do?should i find other friends to hang out with or continue hanging out with my normal friends despite what happened?should i just stop talking to them?
how do i get my anger out so i won’t have outburst like that?
how to make new friends?what are the best friends for me?how to be more extroverted?what is a good back up plan for people to hang out with?
i usually don’t talk that much,mostly around my friends.I and my group of friends can’t really be catogarised but i think we would be “semi-cool” .like we are just like whatever. we wear brand named stuff though and all that yadda-yadda
i am actually kind of getting tired of my friends,they don’t want to do the crazy things that we used to do and now that we have more people it is more strained and weird.i want to find new friends but don’t want to lower my standards or my friends would see it as if i hit rock bottom or something.
oh yeah one more question,was i wrong in this argument?
lol.your welcome.
.the letters are code names for my friends.its supposed to represent them.just in case they read this.lol.i couldn’t think of anything better and don’t want to make it that obvious who they are.
Best answer:
Answer by Evan
First thank you for calling us cool at least somebody thinks we are second i really cant read this think you could clarify this because x and y dint make sense
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*yawwwwwn*
your friend’s a b*tch, make some new playmates.
NEXT!!!
I have 1 thing to say:
You’re so very young! you have your WHOLE life in front of you. If these friends aren’t good for you, drop them… It’s not like you made a marriage commitment to them, stop being with people who make you feel upset like this. Real friends are supposed to be the ones helping you with problems like these, not yahoo answers people! Just drop them. You’ll meet better friends later, and in the meantime you won’t have to be in misery every single day.
my love <3
well is part of growing up u wan to find new friends because the ones u have are boring? don’t worry about it, you will start branching without even knowing u’ll start talking to other people very soon etc,, u ll find friends that share ur same interest. the ones u have might be around is up to them
you are realizing u have a voice and u want to be heard nothing about that.