Question by James Cuhnt: is my step dad cheating on my mum?
Okay so I think that my step dad is cheating on my mum. These are the things so far that make me suspicous:
1. Previously my mum caught him texting another woman, however caught him before anything really happened. This was about 3-4 years ago.
2. He sometimes stays up to a hour overtime doing his evening sports activities than he normally does.
3. Sometimes when he comes in afterwards he will go straight upstairs, and ususally have a bath and change.
4. Often spends ages on his phone texting someone I don’t know who, but it’s not my mum.
5. Never spends long talking on the phone to my mum.
6. Sex life (as far as I’m aware of) isn’t great, and is apparently often “to tired” or his “back hurts” to have sex.
7. When he takes me to work he will volunteer to take me in, but instead of coming back home (which would take 15 mins), he will stay in town for 4 hours, doing what I don’t know.
8. There is a sleeping bag kept in the back of his car.
9. Has a lot of arguments with my mum over trivial things.
10. Does feel a bit tense between my mum and dad.
These are the main things I’ve picked up on which makes me think he could possibly be seeing another woman, and the fact he was caught texting another woman before makes me suspicious as well.
Any input/opinions much appreciated!
Best answer:
Answer by Hokusho
very detailed info well two things he could be cheating on her which is highly likely
or he is losing interest in her and is findign other ways to compensate to not have to spend so much time with her to make sure that when he gets home he actually misses her and wants to see her or be around her
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Well he is showing all the signs of seeing or at least thinking of seeing someone else.You could confront let him know how you feel about his actions and tell him” you see him”.And that he really needs to stop because it can hurt the family .It may sound simply but I know it can be a little taxing but you really need to let him know how you feel about it before it really gets out of hand.Other then that there is not much you can do at this point.You confronting him still may not change the fact on what his doing but at least you know about it.
If your mom is ignoring all of these signs then I guess you should try to as well. It’s their marriage and I guess she would take some action if she felt she had to.
If you have access to his cell phone you can bug it and see what he’s doing. read his texts even if he deletes them, track his location, and hear his voicemails it takes about 4 mins to install, you can get it at http://www.cellsnooper.com
thats how i caught my wife of 12 years cheating